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description: "Why aren't guys taking the initiative anymore?There's a viral videoA guy takes a girl out to eatSays they'll watch a movie after dinnerThe girl says her best friend is coming to pick her upSo the guy cancels the lobster and red wineCancels the hotel reservationSells the Apple phone he was going to give her to the guy next to himThe girl only didn't stop him when he canceled the hotel"
datetime: "2026-02-22T10:05:38.000Z"
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author: "[浩浩荡荡](https://longbridge.com/en/profiles/19784218.md)"
---

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# Why aren't guys taking the initiative anymore?Ther…