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description: "What people fear most is not accidents, but "I could have."If a person spends their entire life turning "could have" into "I did it," then even if unexpected situations arise, they can be at peace with themselves and have no regrets.It's not pessimism; it's living with exceptional clarity and solidity.The best state is to do your best and leave the rest to fate, with a heart that is steady and confident.Health, self-discipline, clarity, and no regrets."
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# What people fear most is not accidents, but "I…