--- type: "Topics" locale: "en" url: "https://longbridge.com/en/topics/39429495.md" description: "My buddy got divorced,and everyone said he was stupid.He said:"After 8 years of marriage,I handed over my entire salary every month, keeping only 500 for myself.I'd come home from working overtime past midnight, and she'd be scrolling through Douyin.On weekends, if I wanted to play some games, she'd say I didn't care about the family.It was only after the divorce that I realized:Living alone,I feel more like a human being than I did when we were together."Many men think marriage is about finding a companion,but in reality, it's about finding a boss for yourself." datetime: "2026-03-22T14:44:21.000Z" locales: - [en](https://longbridge.com/en/topics/39429495.md) - [zh-CN](https://longbridge.com/zh-CN/topics/39429495.md) - [zh-HK](https://longbridge.com/zh-HK/topics/39429495.md) author: "[浩浩小课堂](https://longbridge.com/en/profiles/19784218.md)" --- # My buddy got divorced,and everyone said he was stu…