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description: "A friend's child is 41 years old this year, 180 cm tall, weighs 150 jin (75 kg), looks quite scholarly, has a brief marriage history with no children, holds a master's degree, works in a state-owned enterprise, and earns a monthly salary of over 13,000 yuan.Someone introduced him to a blind date, a kindergarten teacher, 30 years old, 167 cm tall, 103 jin (51.5 kg), divorced with a 3-year-old son. The woman is quite good-looking, with a curvaceous figure, very easy on the eyes, possessing the charm of a woman from the Jiangnan region. The friend's son fell in love at first sight.The woman said a symbolic betrothal gift of tens of thousands of yuan would suffice, no need for the traditional three or five gold items, renting or buying a house is fine, and her name doesn't need to be added to the property. However, the man's salary card must be handed over, and this point is non-negotiable.The friend's son discussed with the woman multiple times whether it was possible not to hand over the salary card. The woman's answer was no, so the two didn't work out.The woman has demanded that all men she's been on blind dates with hand over their salary cards after marriage. Surprisingly, not a single man agreed, so she remains unmarried to this day."
datetime: "2026-07-03T05:49:18.000Z"
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# A friend's child is 41 years old this year, 180 cm…


## Comments (2)

- **ddlnna · 2026-07-03T09:43:32.000Z**: I am a full-time stock investor with no salary.
- **新用户_wsh1964 · 2026-07-03T06:23:30.000Z**: Is it a friend or the friend's son?