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locale: "en"
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description: "The most serious problem now,is no longer that post-00s refuse to marry,nor that post-90s refuse to have children.It is that the post-80s, who are the most hardworking and best at raising children,suddenly turn to their kids and say:You don't have to get married in the future,and you don't have to have children either.Don't copy our lives;just make sure your own life is well-lived.When parents stop urging marriage and childbirth,the real turning point has just begun."
datetime: "2026-07-22T08:33:27.000Z"
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author: "[浩浩荡荡地](https://longbridge.com/en/profiles/19784218.md)"
---

# The most serious problem now,is no longer that pos…