Her Dad Died Last Year, But The Medical Bills Keep Coming. Now She's Afraid To Call, Worried They'll Make Her Pay. 'I Want The Mail To Stop'

After her father passed away in July, his 30-year-old daughter began receiving wave after wave of medical bills in the mail. The daily reminders of the loss were painful enough, but now, she’s also worried that simply calling to stop the mail might backfire. “I want the mail to stop because it is an everyday reminder of the loss,” she wrote in a recent post on r/personalfinance. “But I'm nervous to call the people billing him, thinking they may make me responsible?” Don't Miss: Fast Company Calls It a ‘Groundbreaking Step for the Creator Economy' — Investors Can Still Get In at $0.85/Share Americans With a Financial Plan Can 4X Their Wealth — Get Your Personalized Plan from a CFP Pro No Estate, No Assets, No Responsibility According to many commenters, she has nothing to worry about legally. “His debt died with him,” one person explained. “His estate would be responsible for it but if he didn't have any assets, then there is nothing to collect. Call them and tell them he died and not to contact you again.” On the other hand, many advised against calling creditors directly. Instead, they suggested writing “Deceased. Return to sender” on the envelopes and dropping them back in the mailbox. “Start returning to sender — ‘no such individual at this address,'” another added. Some recommended buying a return stamp and blacking out the barcode to prevent mail from being auto-resent. For persistent billers, the advice was to send a written notice by certified mail and include a copy of the death certificate. “Just NEVER pay a single penny, or agree to do so,” someone warned. “If you agree to assume a debt you might be required to pay it.” Trending: Motley Fool's analysts have built a new lineup of passive ETFs — explore which "Foolish" strategy fits your investment goals. Others shared personal stories of having gone through similar experiences. One recalled sending out multiple copies of a relative’s death certificate and stating there was no estate. “They would love for you to pay and accept the debt as your own,” they wrote. “They don't care. You are not responsible. Do not let anyone convince you that you are. Period.” A hospital billing worker even chimed in, confirming that once they receive confirmation of a patient’s death, they stop billing and write off the cost. What If The Bills Keep Coming? If the mail doesn’t stop, several people suggested reporting repeated contact as harassment. Others recommended contacting the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau or your state’s attorney general. See Also: This ETF issuer isn't chasing the index — it's building tools for income, leverage, and conviction And while a few commenters mentioned obscure filial responsibility laws in some states, most agreed these are rarely enforced unless fraud or asset transfer is involved, and that they typically apply only to spouses, not children. One practical suggestion: sit down with an estate attorney for a one-time session to help draft a letter on official letterhead that can be sent to creditors. It doesn’t have to be expensive, and for those earning $100,000 or more a year, services like WiserAdvisor offer free matching with vetted financial advisors, with no pressure to hire anyone. “This is not your debt,” another person reminded. “Move on and be happy. Sorry for your loss.” Read Next: Professional traders demand transparency — see why Kraken Pro has become one of crypto's most trusted advanced trading platforms. Image: Shutterstock