<p>一项还款承诺变成了争议，因为一名女性表示她的男朋友否认曾同意将杂货和共同账单算作 12000 美元的债务。她在 Reddit 的 r/AITAH 上写道，他告诉她，“这算数”，并在两年内通过食物和每月开支偿还给他——结果他后来坚持认为 “这些都不算”。</p>
<p>她写道，冲突在感恩节后升级，当时他在关于同一债务的新争论中取消了她的折扣车险。</p>
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<p>根据原帖作者的说法，她在 COVID 期间拖欠了房租，她的男朋友支付了她欠的 12000 美元。他曾提出承担杂货费用，因为他的收入远高于她，但在他告诉她支付杂货费用将算入债务后，她开始承担这笔开支。</p>
<p>她写道，他从未纠正过这一协议，并看着她遵循这一协议，而她承担了大部分共同费用。</p>
<h2>她认为算数的内容</h2>
<p>原帖作者写道，她承担了 80% 到 90% 的杂货费用，每月平均约 800 美元。她还支付了他们一起进行的每月活动，费用在 400 到 800 美元之间。</p>
<p>根据她的计算，她的贡献在两年内总计在 28800 美元到 38400 美元之间。她写道，她在认为自己遵循了他批准的还款方式的情况下管理了这些开支。</p>
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<h2>争议如何影响他们的关系</h2>
<p>根据原帖作者的说法，他拒绝与她一起庆祝节日和生日，称她仍然欠他钱。她补充说，关于还款的对话常常导致冲突，这使她避免提起这个话题。</p>
<p>“我相信这会平衡过来，我们会找到一些方法让事情变得更平衡，” 原帖作者写道。“或者如我所想，我是个完全的傻瓜。”</p>
<h2>评论区的反应</h2>
<p>许多评论回应了原帖作者的情况，许多人关注还款的处理方式以及她是否有支付记录。“不是混蛋——追溯日期并给他开账单，要求他支付他的杂货和约会费用。告诉他由于误解，他需要以现金支付他的份额，” 一位 Reddit 用户写道。</p>
<p>“她应该寻找她的收据或卡片对账单，但我认为原帖作者在财务上并不那么精明。她应该在接近欠款金额时就知道，” 另一位评论者写道。</p>
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<p>本文《“这算数，” 她的男朋友说——然后在她为 12000 美元的债务支付了高达 38400 美元后否认曾说过这句话，他现在说 “这些都不算”》最初出现在 Benzinga.com 上。</p>
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<p>一名女性声称，她的男友否认杂货和共同账单算入她支付的 12,000 美元债务，尽管她在两年内支付了高达 38,400 美元。起初双方同意这些费用会算入债务，但他后来坚持认为不算。争执在他取消了她的汽车保险后升级。该女性在 Reddit 上分享了她的故事，寻求关于如何处理这种情况的建议，以及是否应该向他开具费用分摊的发票</p>

<p>A repayment promise turned into a dispute after a woman said her boyfriend denied ever agreeing that groceries and shared bills would count toward a $12,000 debt. Writing on Reddit's r/AITAH, she said he told her, &#34;It counted,&#34; and over two years paid him back through food and monthly expenses — only for him to later insist that &#34;none of that counts.&#34;</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>一项还款承诺变成了争议，因为一名女性表示她的男朋友否认曾同意将杂货和共同账单算作 12000 美元的债务。她在 Reddit 的 r/AITAH 上写道，他告诉她，“这算数”，并在两年内通过食物和每月开支偿还给他——结果他后来坚持认为 “这些都不算”。</p>
</div><p>She wrote that the conflict escalated after Thanksgiving, when he canceled her discounted car-insurance coverage during a new argument about the same debt.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>她写道，冲突在感恩节后升级，当时他在关于同一债务的新争论中取消了她的折扣车险。</p>
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</div><p>According to the original poster, she fell behind on rent during COVID and her boyfriend covered the $12,000 she owed. He had offered to cover groceries because he earned far more, but after he told her that paying for groceries would count toward the debt, she took over that expense.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>根据原帖作者的说法，她在 COVID 期间拖欠了房租，她的男朋友支付了她欠的 12000 美元。他曾提出承担杂货费用，因为他的收入远高于她，但在他告诉她支付杂货费用将算入债务后，她开始承担这笔开支。</p>
</div><p>She wrote that he never corrected the agreement and watched her follow it while she covered most of their shared costs.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>她写道，他从未纠正过这一协议，并看着她遵循这一协议，而她承担了大部分共同费用。</p>
</div><h2>What She Believed Counted</h2>
<div class="lb-trans"><h2>她认为算数的内容</h2>
</div><p>The OP wrote she covered between 80% and 90% of their groceries, averaging about $800 each month. She also paid for a monthly activity they did together, which cost between $400 and $800.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>原帖作者写道，她承担了 80% 到 90% 的杂货费用，每月平均约 800 美元。她还支付了他们一起进行的每月活动，费用在 400 到 800 美元之间。</p>
</div><p>Based on her calculations, her contributions totaled between $28,800 and $38,400 over two years. She wrote that she managed those expenses while believing she was following the repayment method he approved.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>根据她的计算，她的贡献在两年内总计在 28800 美元到 38400 美元之间。她写道，她在认为自己遵循了他批准的还款方式的情况下管理了这些开支。</p>
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</div><h2>How The Dispute Affected Their Relationship</h2>
<div class="lb-trans"><h2>争议如何影响他们的关系</h2>
</div><p>According to the OP, he refused to celebrate holidays and birthdays with her, saying she still owed him money. She added that conversations about repayment often led to conflict, which made her avoid raising the topic.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>根据原帖作者的说法，他拒绝与她一起庆祝节日和生日，称她仍然欠他钱。她补充说，关于还款的对话常常导致冲突，这使她避免提起这个话题。</p>
</div><p>&#34;I had faith it would level out and we'd find ways to make things a bit more balanced,&#34; the OP wrote. &#34;Or as assumed, I'm a complete idiot.&#34;</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>“我相信这会平衡过来，我们会找到一些方法让事情变得更平衡，” 原帖作者写道。“或者如我所想，我是个完全的傻瓜。”</p>
</div><h2>Reactions From The Comment Thread</h2>
<div class="lb-trans"><h2>评论区的反应</h2>
</div><p>A lot of comments responded to OP's situation, with many focusing on how the repayment was handled and whether she had records of what she paid. &#34;Not the a** hole – back date and invoice him for his share of the groceries and dates. Tell him since there was a misunderstanding, he needs to pay his share in cash,&#34; one Redditor wrote.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>许多评论回应了原帖作者的情况，许多人关注还款的处理方式以及她是否有支付记录。“不是混蛋——追溯日期并给他开账单，要求他支付他的杂货和约会费用。告诉他由于误解，他需要以现金支付他的份额，” 一位 Reddit 用户写道。</p>
</div><p>&#34;She should look for her receipts, or card statements, but I don’t think OP is that financially savvy. She should have known when she got close to the amount owed by mental tabulation,&#34; another commenter wrote.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>“她应该寻找她的收据或卡片对账单，但我认为原帖作者在财务上并不那么精明。她应该在接近欠款金额时就知道，” 另一位评论者写道。</p>
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<div class="lb-trans"><p>本文《“这算数，” 她的男朋友说——然后在她为 12000 美元的债务支付了高达 38400 美元后否认曾说过这句话，他现在说 “这些都不算”》最初出现在 Benzinga.com 上。</p>
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“这算数，” 她的男朋友曾这样说——但在她为一笔 12,000 美元的债务支付了他高达 38,400 美元后，他却否认曾说过这句话，并表示 “这些都不算数”