<p>中彩票本应是平凡生活的幻想结局——醒来，检查你的彩票，突然一切都改变了。这就是梦想。但对于一位自称 “运气不错的普通简” 的人来说，最大的惊喜并不是钱，而是她的家人如何将这笔奖金变成了压力、内疚和紧张的源泉。</p>
<p>在一篇现在已归档的 Reddit 帖子 中，这位匿名中奖者坦言，原本应该是改变生活的意外之财却变成了个人的噩梦。&#34;我赢得了改变生活的钱，但这让我感到压力很大，&#34;她承认，并详细说明了她和伴侣制定的周到财务计划。</p>
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<p>她的一半奖金直接投入房地产——一处是他们自己的房产，另一处是在她成长的城市。另有 100 万美元被留给亲密朋友。他们为房产税和支出存入了 100 万美元的共同账户，辞去了工作，剩下的则存入高收益储蓄账户。&#34;我们将能够靠利息生活余生，&#34;她写道，并补充说他们计划为未来的孩子保留本金。</p>
<p>她还给了她的姐姐和母亲每人 200 万美元。这是 400 万美元的家庭慷慨，没有任何附加条件。但她说，得到的不是感激，而是要求。</p>
<p>她的母亲和姐姐指责她自私，认为她没有给更多。&#34;他们要求在我们给的钱上再加一个家庭海滨别墅，&#34;她解释道。更糟的是，他们将这个消息告诉了其他亲戚，之后亲戚们纷纷向她提出要求。&#34;这让我感到极大的焦虑。&#34;</p>
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<p>最糟糕的部分？这并不是一个艰难度日的家庭。&#34;我的家人既不贫穷也不富裕，&#34;她说。&#34;他们都有不错的工作。我的姐姐在一家知名科技公司的部门担任副总裁。我的母亲的退休储蓄超过了我给她的。&#34;</p>
<p>尽管如此，评判依然不断。&#34;我听到他们说我小气，这让我感到非常受伤，&#34;她写道。现在她被期望承担每次晚餐的账单，虽然她偶尔不介意，但这种自以为是的语气开始对她造成影响。&#34;为什么赢得钱会让人们对你如此对待，而不是当有人从家族继承时？&#34;她问道。</p>
<p>评论区充满了支持。</p>
<p>&#34;你给了他们 200 万美元的免费钱，他们却认为 你在自私？真让人费解，&#34;有人回复道。另一个人则建议她听到的正是她需要的：&#34;记住，‘不’ 就是一个完整的句子。&#34;</p>
<p>一位用户准确地描述了这种情感的反转：&#34;我想这让我感到难过，因为在我们中奖之前，我和家人的关系似乎更好，&#34;她回复道，在有人催促她设定更强的界限后。&#34;这是他们的选择，是挥霍还是聪明地使用。&#34;</p>
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<p>几位评论者表示，即使是这笔礼物的一小部分，他们也会感到兴奋。&#34;如果有人给我 200 万美元，他们得把我的嘴封住，才能阻止我感谢他们，&#34;一位网友写道。其他人则警告她要小心。&#34;我看过太多真实犯罪视频……请在亲戚周围小心。他们很嫉妒，如果告诉更多人可能会变得危险。&#34;</p>
<p>至于她被认为在囤积某种&#34;继承&#34;级别的财富的想法？她迅速否定了这一点：&#34;我们赢得的并不是像《继承之战》那样的疯狂富有，&#34;她说。&#34;这比你想象的要谦逊得多。&#34;</p>
<p>不过，伤害已经造成。她可能幸运地赢得了彩票，但她没想到会失去对最亲近的人的信任。</p>
<p>马克·库班长期以来警告彩票赢家要尽早设定界限。这位自我创业的亿万富翁在 2016 年告诉 达拉斯晨报：“告诉你所有的朋友和亲戚不。”</p>
<p>他们会问。告诉他们不。 如果你和他们很亲近，你已经知道谁需要帮助以及他们需要什么。” 他还强调要立即雇佣律师和税务专业人士，指出钱通常是容易的部分——期望则不是。</p>
<p>在这种情况下，中奖者做了许多 “正确” 的事情。她提前规划。她 咨询了一位财务顾问。 她慷慨分享。她没有预料到的是，慷慨会多么迅速地变成义务。</p>
<p>她可能赢得了彩票，但代价不仅仅是财务规划。她学会了金钱不仅改变生活方式——还改变了人际关系。</p>
<p>“钱越多，问题越多，” 她写道。显然，还有更多自以为是的亲戚。</p>
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<p><em><strong>图片：Imagn</strong></em></p>

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<p>一位彩票中奖者分享了她在给母亲和姐妹 400 万美元后，家庭成员的索取心态。她的家人现在要求更多，包括一栋海滨别墅。尽管他们都有不错的工作，但家人却称她自私，这让她感到压力和焦虑。她在维持界限方面感到挣扎，并觉得自从中奖后，自己的关系已经恶化。这个故事突显了突如其来的财富带来的情感挑战，以及设定界限的重要性</p>

<p>A lottery win is supposed to be the fantasy ending to a regular life—wake up, check your ticket, and suddenly everything changes. That's the dream. But for one self-described &#34;regular Jane who got lucky,&#34; the biggest surprise wasn't the money. It was how her family managed to turn the jackpot into a source of stress, guilt, and tension.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>中彩票本应是平凡生活的幻想结局——醒来，检查你的彩票，突然一切都改变了。这就是梦想。但对于一位自称 “运气不错的普通简” 的人来说，最大的惊喜并不是钱，而是她的家人如何将这笔奖金变成了压力、内疚和紧张的源泉。</p>
</div><p>In a now-archived Reddit post, the anonymous winner opened up about how what should've been a life-changing windfall turned into a personal nightmare. &#34;I won money that is life changing and it's stressing me out,&#34; she admitted, laying out the thoughtful financial plan she and her partner had put in place.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>在一篇现在已归档的 Reddit 帖子 中，这位匿名中奖者坦言，原本应该是改变生活的意外之财却变成了个人的噩梦。&#34;我赢得了改变生活的钱，但这让我感到压力很大，&#34;她承认，并详细说明了她和伴侣制定的周到财务计划。</p>
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</div><p>Half of their winnings went straight into real estate—one property for themselves and another in the city where she grew up. Another $1 million was set aside for close friends. They tucked away $1 million in a mutual account for property taxes and expenses after quitting their jobs, and the rest went into a high-yield savings account. &#34;We will be able to live off of interest for the rest of our lives,&#34; she wrote, adding that they plan to preserve the principal for their future children.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>她的一半奖金直接投入房地产——一处是他们自己的房产，另一处是在她成长的城市。另有 100 万美元被留给亲密朋友。他们为房产税和支出存入了 100 万美元的共同账户，辞去了工作，剩下的则存入高收益储蓄账户。&#34;我们将能够靠利息生活余生，&#34;她写道，并补充说他们计划为未来的孩子保留本金。</p>
</div><p>She also gave her sister and her mother $2 million each. That's $4 million in family generosity, no strings attached. But instead of gratitude, she says, she got demands.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>她还给了她的姐姐和母亲每人 200 万美元。这是 400 万美元的家庭慷慨，没有任何附加条件。但她说，得到的不是感激，而是要求。</p>
</div><p>Her mother and sister called her selfish for not coughing up more. &#34;They're asking for a family beach home on top of the money we've given,&#34; she explained. On top of that, they spilled the news to extended relatives, who've since flooded her with requests of their own. &#34;It has caused me great anxiety.&#34;</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>她的母亲和姐姐指责她自私，认为她没有给更多。&#34;他们要求在我们给的钱上再加一个家庭海滨别墅，&#34;她解释道。更糟的是，他们将这个消息告诉了其他亲戚，之后亲戚们纷纷向她提出要求。&#34;这让我感到极大的焦虑。&#34;</p>
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</div><p>The worst part? This wasn't a struggling family scraping by. &#34;My family is neither poor or rich,&#34; she said. &#34;They have good to great jobs. My sister is a VP in her department at a well-known tech company. My mom has retirement savings beyond what I've given her.&#34;</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>最糟糕的部分？这并不是一个艰难度日的家庭。&#34;我的家人既不贫穷也不富裕，&#34;她说。&#34;他们都有不错的工作。我的姐姐在一家知名科技公司的部门担任副总裁。我的母亲的退休储蓄超过了我给她的。&#34;</p>
</div><p>Despite all of this, the judgment kept coming. &#34;I've heard them say I am stingy and this is extremely hurtful,&#34; she wrote. She's now expected to pick up every dinner check, which she doesn't mind occasionally—but the entitled tone has started to take its toll. &#34;Why does winning money make people treat you this way versus when someone inherits it from family?&#34; she asked.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>尽管如此，评判依然不断。&#34;我听到他们说我小气，这让我感到非常受伤，&#34;她写道。现在她被期望承担每次晚餐的账单，虽然她偶尔不介意，但这种自以为是的语气开始对她造成影响。&#34;为什么赢得钱会让人们对你如此对待，而不是当有人从家族继承时？&#34;她问道。</p>
</div><p>The comments section lit up with support.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>评论区充满了支持。</p>
</div><p>&#34;You gave them 2 million free money and they think you're being selfish? The mind boggles,&#34; one person replied. Another suggested exactly what she needed to hear: &#34;Remember that ‘No.' is a full sentence.&#34;</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>&#34;你给了他们 200 万美元的免费钱，他们却认为 你在自私？真让人费解，&#34;有人回复道。另一个人则建议她听到的正是她需要的：&#34;记住，‘不’ 就是一个完整的句子。&#34;</p>
</div><p>One user nailed the emotional whiplash of the situation: &#34;I guess it just makes me sad that prior to our winning, it seems like my family and I had a better relationship,&#34; she replied, after someone urged her to enforce stronger boundaries. &#34;It's their choice to burn through it or be smart about it.&#34;</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>一位用户准确地描述了这种情感的反转：&#34;我想这让我感到难过，因为在我们中奖之前，我和家人的关系似乎更好，&#34;她回复道，在有人催促她设定更强的界限后。&#34;这是他们的选择，是挥霍还是聪明地使用。&#34;</p>
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</div><p>Several commenters said they'd be thrilled with even a fraction of that gift. &#34;If someone gave me 2 mil they'd have to tape my mouth shut to stop me from thanking them,&#34; one person wrote. Others warned her to be careful. &#34;I've seen too many true crime videos… please be careful around relatives. They are jealous, and it could become dangerous if they tell more people.&#34;</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>几位评论者表示，即使是这笔礼物的一小部分，他们也会感到兴奋。&#34;如果有人给我 200 万美元，他们得把我的嘴封住，才能阻止我感谢他们，&#34;一位网友写道。其他人则警告她要小心。&#34;我看过太多真实犯罪视频……请在亲戚周围小心。他们很嫉妒，如果告诉更多人可能会变得危险。&#34;</p>
</div><p>And as for the idea that she was hoarding some &#34;Succession&#34;-level dynasty money? She shut that down fast: &#34;What we won isn't like Succession crazy rich money,&#34; she said. &#34;It's a more modest sum than you think.&#34;</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>至于她被认为在囤积某种&#34;继承&#34;级别的财富的想法？她迅速否定了这一点：&#34;我们赢得的并不是像《继承之战》那样的疯狂富有，&#34;她说。&#34;这比你想象的要谦逊得多。&#34;</p>
</div><p>Still, the damage has been done. She may have been lucky enough to win the lottery, but she didn't expect to lose trust in the people closest to her.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>不过，伤害已经造成。她可能幸运地赢得了彩票，但她没想到会失去对最亲近的人的信任。</p>
</div><p>Mark Cuban has long warned lottery winners about setting boundaries early. The self-made billionaire told the Dallas Morning News in 2016, “Tell all your friends and relatives no.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>马克·库班长期以来警告彩票赢家要尽早设定界限。这位自我创业的亿万富翁在 2016 年告诉 达拉斯晨报：“告诉你所有的朋友和亲戚不。”</p>
</div><p>They will ask. Tell them no. If you are close to them, you already know who needs help and what they need.” He has also stressed hiring an attorney and tax professionals immediately, pointing out that money is usually the easy part – expectations are not.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>他们会问。告诉他们不。 如果你和他们很亲近，你已经知道谁需要帮助以及他们需要什么。” 他还强调要立即雇佣律师和税务专业人士，指出钱通常是容易的部分——期望则不是。</p>
</div><p>In this case, the winner did many of the “right” things. She planned ahead. She consulted a financial adviser. She shared generously. What she didn’t anticipate was how quickly generosity could turn into obligation.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>在这种情况下，中奖者做了许多 “正确” 的事情。她提前规划。她 咨询了一位财务顾问。 她慷慨分享。她没有预料到的是，慷慨会多么迅速地变成义务。</p>
</div><p>She may have won the lottery, but the cost wasn’t just financial planning. It was learning that money doesn’t just change lifestyles — it changes relationships.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>她可能赢得了彩票，但代价不仅仅是财务规划。她学会了金钱不仅改变生活方式——还改变了人际关系。</p>
</div><p>&#34;More money, more problems,&#34; she wrote. And apparently, more entitled relatives.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>“钱越多，问题越多，” 她写道。显然，还有更多自以为是的亲戚。</p>
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</div><p><em><strong>Image: Imagn</strong></em></p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p><em><strong>图片：Imagn</strong></em></p>
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彩票中奖者称，在给母亲和姐姐 400 万美元后，‘每个人都觉得有权分享我的钱’——现在她们想要一个海滨别墅，而姑姑们也纷纷排队索要