<p>对于来自马来西亚雪兰莪州沙阿南的 24 岁销售顾问 Kanimolhi Krisnan 来说，这一天和其他日子没有什么不同。她在地铁站等公交车回家，突然有一个陌生人向她求助。\n 来自印度尼西亚的教育战略家 Frida Pigny 与她的法国丈夫 Samuel Pigny 和女儿 Axelle 一起在吉隆坡。\n“我们被困在吉隆坡中央车站，没有 Wi-Fi，没有 Grab，没有出租车应用；只有信念和人们，” Frida 说。“我们需要去机场赶飞往香港的航班。”\n 她对 Kanimolhi 的第一印象是：“她戴着大耳机，面无表情，脸上有种 ‘别跟我说话’ 的样子。”\n 但事实并非如此，Frida 很快发现，当她接近这位完全专注于听音乐的年轻女性时，情况并不是这样。\nKanimolhi 不仅为 Frida 和她的家人预定了一辆网约车，还确保司机把他们送到正确的机场航站楼，并为他们翻译，因为司机的英语不太好。\n“我只是尽我所能地帮助她，” Kanimolhi 说。“我坚信善良。无论是我认识的人还是陌生人；当有人需要帮助时，我会尽力而为，” 她说。\nKanimolhi 表示，这一切都源于她的父母——母亲清洁工 Mathavi Mahamani 和已故父亲卡车司机 Krisnan Suppiah——从小就灌输给她和她的兄弟姐妹的良好价值观。她是四个孩子中最小的，有两个哥哥和一个姐姐。\n“我知道人们常常害怕帮助别人，甚至与陌生人交谈，因为现在有很多诈骗案件。但我能判断出某人是否真的需要帮助。这就是为什么我在那一刻毫不犹豫地帮助她，” 她说。\n\nKanimolhi 回忆起 Frida 接近她，询问她是否知道前往苏丹阿卜杜勒阿齐兹沙机场的公交车什么时候到。\n“我告诉她我会帮她查一下，然后告知她公交车将在晚上 7:30 到达，” Kanimolhi 说。\nFrida 感到压力很大，因为她和家人有航班要赶。他们担心会错过航班。\n“我建议他们乘坐 Grab 去机场，这样就不会错过航班，但她已经购买了一天的 MyCity 通行证。我随后建议她退掉通行证，但告知她可能无法退款。”\nFrida 随后请 Kanimolhi 等她一下。\n 尽管她的公交车即将离开，Kanimolhi 还是同意等她。\n“她回来后，我为她预定了一辆 Grab 车。当司机到达时，我向他解释了情况，并请他快速把他们送到机场，” 她说。\n 在他们离开之前，Frida 和她的家人与 Kanimolhi 合影留念。\nFrida 注意到，正是在那时，她意识到即使在这个社会联系越来越疏远、人们变得更加冷漠的时代，善良并没有消失。\n“善良依然存在。只是现在更安静。它穿着连帽衫，戴着耳机，面带疲惫的表情，” 她说。\n 这位教育战略家分享了加州大学伯克利分校的研究，显示小的帮助行为，尤其是意外的帮助，可以释放催产素，不仅在接受者身上，也在给予者身上。\n“这确实加强了社会纽带。如果你敢于打破冷漠，善良无处不在。当你这样做时，你再次提醒人性本身，” 她说。\n 这个故事最初由《星报》发布。</p>

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<p>在吉隆坡的一座地铁站，一次偶然的邂逅引发了一场温暖人心的善举。24 岁的销售顾问 Kanimolhi Krisnan 帮助了 Frida Pigny 和她的家人，他们在没有 Wi-Fi 和交通工具的情况下被困。Kanimolhi 为他们预订了前往机场的交通，并为他们翻译，展示了在一个常常充满社会隔阂的世界中，善良的重要性。Frida 强调，小小的帮助行为可以增强社会纽带，提醒我们善良的持久存在</p>

<p>It was like any other day for 24-year-old sales adviser Kanimolhi Krisnan from Shah Alam in Malaysia’s Selangor state. She was at the MRT station waiting for the bus to go home after work when a stranger approached her for help.\nFrida Pigny, an education strategist from Indonesia, was in Kuala Lumpur with her French husband Samuel Pigny and their daughter Axelle.\n“We were stuck at the Kuala Lumpur Sentral with no Wi-fi, no Grab, no taxi app; just faith and people,” Frida said. “We needed to go to the airport for our flight to Hong Kong.”\nShe revealed her first impression of Kanimolhi: “She had big headphones, zero expression and a ‘don’t-talk-to-me’ kind of face.”\nThis could not be further from the truth as Frida soon found out when she approached the young woman who was totally focused on listening to music on her headphones.\nKanimolhi not only booked an e-hailing car for Frida and her family, she even made sure the driver took them to the right airport terminal and translated for them as the driver did not speak much English.\n“I just did what I could to help at that time,” Kanimolhi said. “I strongly believe in being kind. It doesn’t matter whether it’s someone I know or a stranger; when someone needs help, I’ll help as much as I can,” she said.\nKanimolhi said that it was because of the good values her parents – mother cleaner Mathavi Mahamani and late father, lorry driver Krisnan Suppiah – instilled in her and her siblings from young. She is the youngest of four children and has two older brothers and an elder sister.\n“I know people are often afraid to help others or even talk to strangers as there are many scam cases these days. But I can tell when someone truly needs help. That’s why I didn’t hesitate to help her at that moment,” she said.\n\nKanimolhi recalled Frida approaching her, asking if she knew what time the bus for the Sultan Abdul Aziz Shah Airport in Subang would arrive.\n“I told her I’d find out for her, and then informed her it would come at 7.30pm, after checking,” Kanimolhi said.\nFrida felt stressed because she and her family had a flight to catch. They were afraid that they might miss their flight.\n“I suggested that they go to the airport by Grab so that they wouldn’t miss their flight, but she had already bought the one-day MyCity pass. I then advised her to return the pass but informed her she might not get a refund.”\nFrida then asked Kanimolhi to wait for her while she did that.\nAnd even though her bus home was about to leave, Kanimolhi agreed to wait for her.\n“After she returned, I booked a Grab car for her. When the driver arrived, I explained the situation to him and asked him to drive them to the airport quickly,” she said.\nBefore they left, Frida and her family took a photo with Kanimolhi.\nFrida noted it was then that she realised even in a time when there has been more social disconnect in the world and people have become more distant, kindness has not disappeared.\n“Kindness is still around. It’s just quieter now. It wears hoodies, headphones and tired faces,” she said.\nThe education strategist shared how research from the University of California, Berkeley showed that small acts of help, especially unexpected ones, could release oxytocin not only in the receivers but in the givers as well.\n“It literally strengthens social bonds. Kindness is everywhere if you dare to interrupt the indifference. And when you do, you remind humanity of itself once again,” she said.\nThis story was first published by The Star\n</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>对于来自马来西亚雪兰莪州沙阿南的 24 岁销售顾问 Kanimolhi Krisnan 来说，这一天和其他日子没有什么不同。她在地铁站等公交车回家，突然有一个陌生人向她求助。\n 来自印度尼西亚的教育战略家 Frida Pigny 与她的法国丈夫 Samuel Pigny 和女儿 Axelle 一起在吉隆坡。\n“我们被困在吉隆坡中央车站，没有 Wi-Fi，没有 Grab，没有出租车应用；只有信念和人们，” Frida 说。“我们需要去机场赶飞往香港的航班。”\n 她对 Kanimolhi 的第一印象是：“她戴着大耳机，面无表情，脸上有种 ‘别跟我说话’ 的样子。”\n 但事实并非如此，Frida 很快发现，当她接近这位完全专注于听音乐的年轻女性时，情况并不是这样。\nKanimolhi 不仅为 Frida 和她的家人预定了一辆网约车，还确保司机把他们送到正确的机场航站楼，并为他们翻译，因为司机的英语不太好。\n“我只是尽我所能地帮助她，” Kanimolhi 说。“我坚信善良。无论是我认识的人还是陌生人；当有人需要帮助时，我会尽力而为，” 她说。\nKanimolhi 表示，这一切都源于她的父母——母亲清洁工 Mathavi Mahamani 和已故父亲卡车司机 Krisnan Suppiah——从小就灌输给她和她的兄弟姐妹的良好价值观。她是四个孩子中最小的，有两个哥哥和一个姐姐。\n“我知道人们常常害怕帮助别人，甚至与陌生人交谈，因为现在有很多诈骗案件。但我能判断出某人是否真的需要帮助。这就是为什么我在那一刻毫不犹豫地帮助她，” 她说。\n\nKanimolhi 回忆起 Frida 接近她，询问她是否知道前往苏丹阿卜杜勒阿齐兹沙机场的公交车什么时候到。\n“我告诉她我会帮她查一下，然后告知她公交车将在晚上 7:30 到达，” Kanimolhi 说。\nFrida 感到压力很大，因为她和家人有航班要赶。他们担心会错过航班。\n“我建议他们乘坐 Grab 去机场，这样就不会错过航班，但她已经购买了一天的 MyCity 通行证。我随后建议她退掉通行证，但告知她可能无法退款。”\nFrida 随后请 Kanimolhi 等她一下。\n 尽管她的公交车即将离开，Kanimolhi 还是同意等她。\n“她回来后，我为她预定了一辆 Grab 车。当司机到达时，我向他解释了情况，并请他快速把他们送到机场，” 她说。\n 在他们离开之前，Frida 和她的家人与 Kanimolhi 合影留念。\nFrida 注意到，正是在那时，她意识到即使在这个社会联系越来越疏远、人们变得更加冷漠的时代，善良并没有消失。\n“善良依然存在。只是现在更安静。它穿着连帽衫，戴着耳机，面带疲惫的表情，” 她说。\n 这位教育战略家分享了加州大学伯克利分校的研究，显示小的帮助行为，尤其是意外的帮助，可以释放催产素，不仅在接受者身上，也在给予者身上。\n“这确实加强了社会纽带。如果你敢于打破冷漠，善良无处不在。当你这样做时，你再次提醒人性本身，” 她说。\n 这个故事最初由《星报》发布。</p>
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困在马来西亚没有 Wi-Fi 和 Grab：一位陌生人如何拯救了一个家庭的香港之旅