<p><strong>甲骨文公司</strong> 联合创始人 <strong>拉里·埃里森</strong> 曾表示，关于购买一艘帆船的争执结束了他的婚姻。</p>
<h2><strong>从医学院梦想到不满</strong></h2>
<p>在 2016 年南加州大学的毕业典礼演讲中，埃里森回忆起他在芝加哥南区长大的早年时光，那时成为医生被视为成功的终极标准。</p>
<p>他说，这个梦想在家人、老师和女友的影响下逐渐成为了他自己的梦想——尽管它从未真正适合他。</p>
<p>埃里森回忆起在医学预科课程中挣扎，并意识到他对为自己铺设的道路几乎没有兴趣。</p>
<p>&#34;我无法让自己成为我认为应该成为的人，&#34;他说，并补充说他最终在 21 岁时辍学，搬到了加利福尼亚。</p>
<h2><strong>在加利福尼亚寻找目标与冲突</strong></h2>
<p>在 1960 年代定居伯克利后，埃里森投身于环保事业，兼职担任约塞米蒂的河流向导和攀岩教练，同时编程以支付账单。</p>
<p>他将这一时期描述为个人发现和相对幸福的阶段。</p>
<p>然而，他的妻子并不这样认为。埃里森说，她想要稳定——一份全职的编程工作或重返大学。紧张局势在他决定购买一艘帆船后达到高潮，因为他参加了一门帆船课程。</p>
<p>&#34;我妻子说这是她一生中听过的最愚蠢的主意。她指责我不负责任，并告诉我缺乏雄心，&#34;埃里森说。</p>
<p>这场争执导致他被赶出家门，最终离婚。埃里森称这是他生活中的一个&#34;关键时刻&#34;。</p>
<h2><strong>埃里森谈论选择自己的梦想</strong></h2>
<p>这位甲骨文联合创始人表示，离婚迫使他面对一个反复出现的主题：迎合他人的期望。</p>
<p>然而这一次，他对自己没有感到失望。&#34;他们的梦想和我的梦想是不同的，&#34;他说。&#34;我再也不会混淆这两者了。&#34;</p>
<p>他继续和他的猫住在帆船上，探索不同的工作和兴趣，最终倾向于硅谷的初创公司。</p>
<h2><strong>从个人选择到科技巨头</strong></h2>
<p>埃里森表示，他最初的目标很简单——通过创办一家小公司来创造一份他热爱的工作。那家公司便是甲骨文公司。</p>
<p>&#34;当人们开始告诉你你疯了时，你可能正走在你生命中最重要的创新上。当然，另一种可能性是你真的疯了，&#34;埃里森说。</p>
<h2><strong>从预算警告到 2350 亿美元的财富</strong></h2>
<p>根据彭博亿万富翁 指数，埃里森目前的净资产为 2350 亿美元，排名第六。他的公司甲骨文的 市值 为 5241.7 亿美元。</p>
<p>这位软件亿万富翁以奢华的生活方式而闻名。</p>
<p>在 2002 年的一封电子邮件中，他的会计师 <strong>菲利普·西蒙</strong> 据报道建议他&#34;制定预算和计划，&#34;警告他的支出变得越来越难以维持，福布斯报道，引用了 2006 年 1 月《旧金山纪事报》的报道。</p>
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<p>甲骨文公司联合创始人拉里·埃里森透露，与妻子在购买帆船上的分歧导致了他们的离婚，这成为他人生中的一个重要转折点。这场冲突促使他拒绝社会期望，追求自己的梦想，最终导致了甲骨文的创立。埃里森强调了追随自己道路的重要性，并表示当人们称你为 “疯狂” 时，这可能意味着你正处于重大创新的边缘。目前，他的净资产为 2350 亿美元，甲骨文的市值为 5241.7 亿美元</p>

<p><strong>Oracle Corp</strong> co-founder <strong>Larry Ellison</strong> once said a disagreement over buying a sailboat ended his marriage.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p><strong>甲骨文公司</strong> 联合创始人 <strong>拉里·埃里森</strong> 曾表示，关于购买一艘帆船的争执结束了他的婚姻。</p>
</div><h2><strong>From Medical School Dreams To Discontent</strong></h2>
<div class="lb-trans"><h2><strong>从医学院梦想到不满</strong></h2>
</div><p>In his 2016 commencement speech at the University of Southern California, Ellison reflected on his early years growing up on the South Side of Chicago, where becoming a doctor was seen as the ultimate measure of success.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>在 2016 年南加州大学的毕业典礼演讲中，埃里森回忆起他在芝加哥南区长大的早年时光，那时成为医生被视为成功的终极标准。</p>
</div><p>He said that dream, reinforced by family, teachers and his girlfriend, gradually became his own — even though it never truly fit.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>他说，这个梦想在家人、老师和女友的影响下逐渐成为了他自己的梦想——尽管它从未真正适合他。</p>
</div><p>Ellison recalled struggling through pre-med courses and realizing he had little interest in the path laid out for him.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>埃里森回忆起在医学预科课程中挣扎，并意识到他对为自己铺设的道路几乎没有兴趣。</p>
</div><p>&#34;I was unable to make myself into the person that I thought I should be,&#34; he said, adding that he eventually dropped out of college at age 21 and moved to California.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>&#34;我无法让自己成为我认为应该成为的人，&#34;他说，并补充说他最终在 21 岁时辍学，搬到了加利福尼亚。</p>
</div><h2><strong>Finding Purpose — And Conflict — In California</strong></h2>
<div class="lb-trans"><h2><strong>在加利福尼亚寻找目标与冲突</strong></h2>
</div><p>After settling in Berkeley during the 1960s, Ellison immersed himself in environmental causes, working as a river guide and rock-climbing instructor in Yosemite while programming computers part-time to pay the bills.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>在 1960 年代定居伯克利后，埃里森投身于环保事业，兼职担任约塞米蒂的河流向导和攀岩教练，同时编程以支付账单。</p>
</div><p>He described this period as one of personal discovery and relative happiness.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>他将这一时期描述为个人发现和相对幸福的阶段。</p>
</div><p>His wife, however, did not share that view. Ellison said she wanted stability — a full-time programming job or a return to college. The tension came to a head when he decided he wanted to buy a sailboat after taking a sailing class.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>然而，他的妻子并不这样认为。埃里森说，她想要稳定——一份全职的编程工作或重返大学。紧张局势在他决定购买一艘帆船后达到高潮，因为他参加了一门帆船课程。</p>
</div><p>&#34;My wife said this was the single stupidest idea she had ever heard in her entire life. She accused me of being irresponsible, and she told me I lacked ambition,&#34; Ellison said.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>&#34;我妻子说这是她一生中听过的最愚蠢的主意。她指责我不负责任，并告诉我缺乏雄心，&#34;埃里森说。</p>
</div><p>The disagreement led to him being kicked out of their home and ultimately divorced. Ellison called it a &#34;pivotal moment&#34; in his life.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>这场争执导致他被赶出家门，最终离婚。埃里森称这是他生活中的一个&#34;关键时刻&#34;。</p>
</div><h2><strong>Ellison Spoke About Choosing His Own Dreams</strong></h2>
<div class="lb-trans"><h2><strong>埃里森谈论选择自己的梦想</strong></h2>
</div><p>The Oracle co-founder said the divorce forced him to confront a recurring theme: living up to other people's expectations.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>这位甲骨文联合创始人表示，离婚迫使他面对一个反复出现的主题：迎合他人的期望。</p>
</div><p>This time, however, he felt no disappointment in himself. &#34;Their dreams and my dreams were different,&#34; he said. &#34;I would never confuse the two of them again.&#34;</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>然而这一次，他对自己没有感到失望。&#34;他们的梦想和我的梦想是不同的，&#34;他说。&#34;我再也不会混淆这两者了。&#34;</p>
</div><p>He went on to live on the sailboat with his cat and continued exploring different jobs and interests, eventually gravitating toward Silicon Valley startups.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>他继续和他的猫住在帆船上，探索不同的工作和兴趣，最终倾向于硅谷的初创公司。</p>
</div><h2><strong>From A Personal Choice To A Tech Giant</strong></h2>
<div class="lb-trans"><h2><strong>从个人选择到科技巨头</strong></h2>
</div><p>Ellison said his original goal was modest — to create a job he loved by founding a small company. That company became Oracle Corp.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>埃里森表示，他最初的目标很简单——通过创办一家小公司来创造一份他热爱的工作。那家公司便是甲骨文公司。</p>
</div><p>&#34;When people start telling you that you're crazy, you just might be on to the most important innovation in your life. Of course, the other possibility is you're crazy,&#34; Ellison said.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>&#34;当人们开始告诉你你疯了时，你可能正走在你生命中最重要的创新上。当然，另一种可能性是你真的疯了，&#34;埃里森说。</p>
</div><h2><strong>From Budget Warnings To A $235 Billion Fortune</strong></h2>
<div class="lb-trans"><h2><strong>从预算警告到 2350 亿美元的财富</strong></h2>
</div><p>According to the Bloomberg Billionaire Index, Ellison currently has a net worth of $235 billion, ranking him sixth on the index. His company, Oracle, has a market cap of $524.17 billion.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>根据彭博亿万富翁 指数，埃里森目前的净资产为 2350 亿美元，排名第六。他的公司甲骨文的 市值 为 5241.7 亿美元。</p>
</div><p>The software billionaire is known for his extravagant lifestyle.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>这位软件亿万富翁以奢华的生活方式而闻名。</p>
</div><p>In a 2002 email, his accountant <strong>Philip Simon</strong> reportedly advised him to &#34;budget and plan,&#34; warning that his spending was becoming increasingly hard to sustain, reported Forbes, citing a January 2006 San Francisco Chronicle report.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>在 2002 年的一封电子邮件中，他的会计师 <strong>菲利普·西蒙</strong> 据报道建议他&#34;制定预算和计划，&#34;警告他的支出变得越来越难以维持，福布斯报道，引用了 2006 年 1 月《旧金山纪事报》的报道。</p>
</div><p><em>Photo: Jay Hirano/Shutterstock</em></p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p><em>照片：Jay Hirano/Shutterstock</em></p>
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