I heard a female boss's remarks today, and it really woke me up😑

​She said, even if a woman is sleeping in the same bed with you, a man must never reveal all his cards.

​I was drinking with a friend in construction recently, and he's pretty much finished now.

​Back when he was in love and his brain was hot, he handed over everything to the woman—his family assets, account books, along with a pile of bad debts.

​Now they've fallen out, and she's using these "exhibits for the court," almost getting him sent away.

​This reminded me of a casual chat with a boss.

​He's seen countless people, and his exact words were: "Even if a man is under the covers with a woman, he has to keep his cards close to his chest."

​I don't think we can really blame anyone for being ruthless in this.

​Men and women are simply not on the same wavelength when it comes to handling a breakup.

​When men break up, at most they'll have a drink, curse a bit, and then it's over.

​Once a woman is determined to turn hostile, she will absolutely use a magnifying glass to find your Achilles' heel.

​The knives you handed over to show your loyalty back then are now all stabbing your own arteries.

​The better someone knows you, the darker their moves are when things turn sour.

​A sincere piece of advice: Don't be a "transparent person" in a relationship. Revealing everything is handing over a knife. Deep affection ≠ laying everything bare. Keeping some cards isn't about distrust; it's about leaving yourself an airbag for life!