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<p>一位 TikTok 创作者情感真挚地讲述了被亲密朋友称为 “穷人”，并因此被悄悄排除在社交活动之外的经历，引发了网络上的共鸣。</p>
<p>在 2026 年 2 月 12 日的一段视频中，Andrey Borul（@father_vs_world）含泪回忆起一位朋友开玩笑说，没有人想邀请他和他的妻子出去，因为他们的经济状况。</p>
<p>Borul 表示，他因感染几乎丧命，背负着巨额医疗债务，承认这句话让他感到很受伤，不是因为它不正确，而是因为它暴露了经济困难的孤立感。</p>
<p><img src="https://imageproxy.pbkrs.com/https://s.yimg.com/ny/api/res/1.2/.kyEvIuKydci5K_izQ9TfA--/YXBwaWQ9aGlnaGxhbmRlcjt3PTk2MDtoPTE1Mzk-/https://media.zenfs.com/en/daily_dot_articles_819/67a5a20d24d358265e10f315e07b84e9?x-oss-process=image/auto-orient,1/interlace,1/resize,w_1440,h_1440/quality,q_95/format,jpg" alt="" original-src="https://imageproxy.pbkrs.com/https://s.yimg.com/ny/api/res/1.2/.kyEvIuKydci5K_izQ9TfA--/YXBwaWQ9aGlnaGxhbmRlcjt3PTk2MDtoPTE1Mzk-/https://media.zenfs.com/en/daily_dot_articles_819/67a5a20d24d358265e10f315e07b84e9"/></p>
<p>@father_vs_world/TikTok</p>
<p>Borul 描述了他和妻子参加一个聚会时，一位亲密朋友称他们 “穷”。</p>
<p>这位朋友笑着补充说，没有人想邀请 Borul 和他的妻子参加社交活动，因为他的经济状况。“我当时愣住了，” Borul 谈到这次交流时说。</p>
<p>视频中，Borul 承认他的亲密朋友说得没错——他确实是穷。</p>
<p>“我现在几乎每天工作 20 小时来偿还医疗债务，” 他说。“显然，我们必须勒紧裤腰带。”</p>
<p>因此，他无法负担度假——然而，他的家人仍然设法享受乐趣。</p>
<p>“我带了一堆雪，放在后院，让我们的孩子们玩，” Borul 说。“因为确实，我们负担不起去山上花几百美元旅行。”</p>
<p>在这段 2 分 50 秒的 TikTok 视频中，创作者情绪激动，解释了他感到孤立和被排斥的感受。</p>
<p>“穷真的很糟糕。我感到非常孤独。我们已经三个月没有被邀请去任何地方了，” 他含泪说。“请邀请我们去一些地方。”</p>
<p>在给《每日点滴》的邮件中，Borul 解释说：“我和我的妻子是社交蝴蝶，喜欢有朋友在身边，但被排除在外真的让我们很受伤。”</p>
<p>他说，他们的家庭对视频引发的同情涌现感到深受感动。</p>
<p>“视频在网上迅速走红的第二天，我给妻子看了它获得的数百万观看次数，” 他写道。“她简直不敢相信，接下来的一周我们成了社区的话题，甚至我们的牧师也联系了我们，确保我们一切都好。”</p>
<h2>评论者表示 “拒绝是保护”</h2>
<p>这段视频获得了超过 100 万次观看和 2 万条评论。许多人对创作者表示同情，并分享了自己贫穷的故事。</p>
<p>“你有妻子和孩子……一个家庭。你是富有的，兄弟！！” 一条评论写道。</p>
<p>“我们大多数北美人都和你处于同样的境地，” 另一条 TikTok 评论写道。</p>
<p><img src="https://imageproxy.pbkrs.com/https://s.yimg.com/ny/api/res/1.2/R.g9cNjRaVk2NUCMnKZV2Q--/YXBwaWQ9aGlnaGxhbmRlcjt3PTk2MDtoPTgyOA--/https://media.zenfs.com/en/daily_dot_articles_819/09977b3d835ab6998d64b7f49fd1bb47?x-oss-process=image/auto-orient,1/interlace,1/resize,w_1440,h_1440/quality,q_95/format,jpg" alt="" original-src="https://imageproxy.pbkrs.com/https://s.yimg.com/ny/api/res/1.2/R.g9cNjRaVk2NUCMnKZV2Q--/YXBwaWQ9aGlnaGxhbmRlcjt3PTk2MDtoPTgyOA--/https://media.zenfs.com/en/daily_dot_articles_819/09977b3d835ab6998d64b7f49fd1bb47"/></p>
<p>@father_vs_world/TikTok</p>
<p>但最受欢迎的评论更进一步——警告 Borul，视频中称他 “穷” 的人并不是真正的朋友。</p>
<p>“他们不邀请你是上帝的保护！拒绝是保护，” 一条评论写道。</p>
<p>“如果他们的朋友” 过得这么好，也许他们应该买单，” 一位 Reddit 用户建议。</p>
<p>“看不起朋友，尤其是当他们可能经济拮据时，说明了他们的本性，” 另一位 Reddit 用户补充道。</p>
<p>“你是个好人。不要让这种人让你感到任何不适，” 另一条 TikTok 评论写道。“远离他们。你是我会很荣幸称之为朋友的人。”</p>
<h2>医疗债务的真实代价</h2>
<p>根据 KFF 的数据，2022 年，四成成年人报告因医疗或牙科账单而产生债务，包括欠信用卡、催收机构、家人和朋友、银行及其他贷款机构的债务，以支付医疗费用。</p>
<p>Borul 发起了一个 GoFundMe 活动，以帮助减轻他的医疗债务。截至 3 月 2 日，该众筹活动已筹集超过 25,000 美元。</p>
<p>医疗债务并不完全是患者的错；它往往是医疗和政府系统内系统性问题的结果。</p>
<p>“医疗债务是数十年功能失调的医疗政策、市场导向的保险系统以及存在显著缺口的安全网项目的产物，” 罗斯福研究所的 Stephen Nuñez 表示。“费用可能是巨大的。”</p>
<p><em>《每日点滴》已通过电子邮件联系 @father_vs_world。创作者尚未立即回复评论请求。</em></p>
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<p>一位 TikTok 创作者安德烈·博鲁尔（Andrey Borul）分享了一段情感视频，讲述了因被朋友贴上 “穷人” 标签而导致的社会排斥。在一次医疗紧急情况后，他背负了巨额债务，博鲁尔表达了因未被邀请参加活动而感到孤独和受伤。他的视频引起了许多人的共鸣，观看次数超过 100 万，并获得了支持性的评论。博鲁尔发起了一个 GoFundMe 筹款活动，以帮助支付医疗费用，目前已筹集超过 25,000 美元。这一情况突显了医疗债务对北美许多个人的影响这一更广泛的问题</p>

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<p>A TikTok creator’s emotional confession about being labeled “poor” by a close friend, and quietly excluded from social events because of it, has struck a nerve online.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>一位 TikTok 创作者情感真挚地讲述了被亲密朋友称为 “穷人”，并因此被悄悄排除在社交活动之外的经历，引发了网络上的共鸣。</p>
</div><p>In a Feb. 12, 2026, video, Andrey Borul (@father_vs_world) tearfully recounted how a friend joked that no one wanted to invite him and his wife out due to their financial situation.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>在 2026 年 2 月 12 日的一段视频中，Andrey Borul（@father_vs_world）含泪回忆起一位朋友开玩笑说，没有人想邀请他和他的妻子出去，因为他们的经济状况。</p>
</div><p>Borul, who says he’s buried in medical debt after nearly dying from an infection, admitted the comment hit hard, not because it was wrong, but because it exposed how isolating financial hardship can be.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>Borul 表示，他因感染几乎丧命，背负着巨额医疗债务，承认这句话让他感到很受伤，不是因为它不正确，而是因为它暴露了经济困难的孤立感。</p>
</div><p><img src="https://imageproxy.pbkrs.com/https://s.yimg.com/ny/api/res/1.2/.kyEvIuKydci5K_izQ9TfA--/YXBwaWQ9aGlnaGxhbmRlcjt3PTk2MDtoPTE1Mzk-/https://media.zenfs.com/en/daily_dot_articles_819/67a5a20d24d358265e10f315e07b84e9" alt="" original-src="https://s.yimg.com/ny/api/res/1.2/.kyEvIuKydci5K_izQ9TfA--/YXBwaWQ9aGlnaGxhbmRlcjt3PTk2MDtoPTE1Mzk-/https://media.zenfs.com/en/daily_dot_articles_819/67a5a20d24d358265e10f315e07b84e9"/></p>
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<div class="lb-trans"><p>@father_vs_world/TikTok</p>
</div><p>Borul describes attending a party with his wife where a close friend called the couple “poor.”</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>Borul 描述了他和妻子参加一个聚会时，一位亲密朋友称他们 “穷”。</p>
</div><p>The friend laughed, adding that nobody wanted to invite Borul and his wife to social occasions because of his financial situation. “I was dumbfounded,” Borul said of the exchange.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>这位朋友笑着补充说，没有人想邀请 Borul 和他的妻子参加社交活动，因为他的经济状况。“我当时愣住了，” Borul 谈到这次交流时说。</p>
</div><p>The video continues with Borul admitting that his close friend was correct—he <em>is</em> poor.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>视频中，Borul 承认他的亲密朋友说得没错——他确实是穷。</p>
</div><p>“I’m basically right now working almost 20 hours a day trying to recover,” he said, of his medical debt. “Obviously, we have to tighten our belts.”</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>“我现在几乎每天工作 20 小时来偿还医疗债务，” 他说。“显然，我们必须勒紧裤腰带。”</p>
</div><p>For this reason, he can’t afford vacations—yet, his family manages to have fun.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>因此，他无法负担度假——然而，他的家人仍然设法享受乐趣。</p>
</div><p>“I brought a ton of snow and I left it in our backyard so our kids could enjoy,” Borul said. “Because it’s true, we can’t afford to go to the mountains and spend hundreds of dollars on a trip.”</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>“我带了一堆雪，放在后院，让我们的孩子们玩，” Borul 说。“因为确实，我们负担不起去山上花几百美元旅行。”</p>
</div><p>Throughout the 2-minute and 50-second TikTok video, the creator became emotional, explaining how isolating and excluded he feels.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>在这段 2 分 50 秒的 TikTok 视频中，创作者情绪激动，解释了他感到孤立和被排斥的感受。</p>
</div><p>“Being poor sucks. I feel so alone. We haven’t been invited for three months anywhere,” he says, tearfully. “Invite us to go to places.”</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>“穷真的很糟糕。我感到非常孤独。我们已经三个月没有被邀请去任何地方了，” 他含泪说。“请邀请我们去一些地方。”</p>
</div><p>In an email to the Daily Dot, Borul explained: “Me and my wife are social butterflies and love having company around, but to be excluded from it really hurt us.”</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>在给《每日点滴》的邮件中，Borul 解释说：“我和我的妻子是社交蝴蝶，喜欢有朋友在身边，但被排除在外真的让我们很受伤。”</p>
</div><p>He said their family was deeply touched by the outpouring of compassion in response to his video.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>他说，他们的家庭对视频引发的同情涌现感到深受感动。</p>
</div><p>“The morning after the clip went super viral I showed my wife the millions of views it got,” he wrote. “She couldn’t believe it and for the next week we were the talk of the community, even reaching our pastor who reached out to make sure we were doing ok.”</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>“视频在网上迅速走红的第二天，我给妻子看了它获得的数百万观看次数，” 他写道。“她简直不敢相信，接下来的一周我们成了社区的话题，甚至我们的牧师也联系了我们，确保我们一切都好。”</p>
</div><h2>Commenters say “rejection is protection”</h2>
<div class="lb-trans"><h2>评论者表示 “拒绝是保护”</h2>
</div><p>The video garnered over 1 million views and 20,000 comments. Many empathized with the creator and contributed their own stories of being poor.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>这段视频获得了超过 100 万次观看和 2 万条评论。许多人对创作者表示同情，并分享了自己贫穷的故事。</p>
</div><p>“You have a wife and kids…a family. You’re RICH, brother!!” one comment read.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>“你有妻子和孩子……一个家庭。你是富有的，兄弟！！” 一条评论写道。</p>
</div><p>“Most of us in North America are in your shoes,” read another TikTok comment.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>“我们大多数北美人都和你处于同样的境地，” 另一条 TikTok 评论写道。</p>
</div><p><img src="https://imageproxy.pbkrs.com/https://s.yimg.com/ny/api/res/1.2/R.g9cNjRaVk2NUCMnKZV2Q--/YXBwaWQ9aGlnaGxhbmRlcjt3PTk2MDtoPTgyOA--/https://media.zenfs.com/en/daily_dot_articles_819/09977b3d835ab6998d64b7f49fd1bb47" alt="" original-src="https://s.yimg.com/ny/api/res/1.2/R.g9cNjRaVk2NUCMnKZV2Q--/YXBwaWQ9aGlnaGxhbmRlcjt3PTk2MDtoPTgyOA--/https://media.zenfs.com/en/daily_dot_articles_819/09977b3d835ab6998d64b7f49fd1bb47"/></p>
<p>@father_vs_world/TikTok</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>@father_vs_world/TikTok</p>
</div><p>But the most liked comments went further—warning Borul that the person in the video who called him “poor” is not his real friend.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>但最受欢迎的评论更进一步——警告 Borul，视频中称他 “穷” 的人并不是真正的朋友。</p>
</div><p>“Them not inviting you is Gods protection! Rejection is protection,” read one comment.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>“他们不邀请你是上帝的保护！拒绝是保护，” 一条评论写道。</p>
</div><p>“If their friend” are so well off, maybe they should pick up the tab,” a Reddit user suggested.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>“如果他们的朋友” 过得这么好，也许他们应该买单，” 一位 Reddit 用户建议。</p>
</div><p>“looking down on your friends when they may have less money says alot about who they are,” another Redditor added.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>“看不起朋友，尤其是当他们可能经济拮据时，说明了他们的本性，” 另一位 Reddit 用户补充道。</p>
</div><p>“You are THE MAN. Do not let those type of people make you feel any sort of way,” read another comment on TikTok. “Run from them. You’re the kind of guy I would be honored to call my friend.”</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>“你是个好人。不要让这种人让你感到任何不适，” 另一条 TikTok 评论写道。“远离他们。你是我会很荣幸称之为朋友的人。”</p>
</div><h2>The true cost of medical debt</h2>
<div class="lb-trans"><h2>医疗债务的真实代价</h2>
</div><p>According to KFF, in 2022, four in ten adults reported having debt due to medical or dental bills, including debts owed to credit cards, collections agencies, family and friends, banks, and other lenders to pay for their health care costs.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>根据 KFF 的数据，2022 年，四成成年人报告因医疗或牙科账单而产生债务，包括欠信用卡、催收机构、家人和朋友、银行及其他贷款机构的债务，以支付医疗费用。</p>
</div><p>Borul started a GoFundMe to help offset his medical debt. As of March 2, the crowdsourcing campaign had reached over $25,000.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>Borul 发起了一个 GoFundMe 活动，以帮助减轻他的医疗债务。截至 3 月 2 日，该众筹活动已筹集超过 25,000 美元。</p>
</div><p>Medical debt isn’t entirely the patient’s fault; it is often the result of systemic problems within healthcare and governmental systems.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>医疗债务并不完全是患者的错；它往往是医疗和政府系统内系统性问题的结果。</p>
</div><p>“Medical debt is the product of decades of dysfunctional health-care policy, a market-oriented insurance system, and a patchwork of safety net programs with notable gaps,” says Stephen Nuñez of The Roosevelt Institute. “The costs can be enormous.”</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>“医疗债务是数十年功能失调的医疗政策、市场导向的保险系统以及存在显著缺口的安全网项目的产物，” 罗斯福研究所的 Stephen Nuñez 表示。“费用可能是巨大的。”</p>
</div><p><em>The Daily Dot has reached out to @father_vs_world via email. The creator did not immediately respond to the request for comment.</em></p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p><em>《每日点滴》已通过电子邮件联系 @father_vs_world。创作者尚未立即回复评论请求。</em></p>
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