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<p>一位 TikTok 創作者情感真摯地講述了被親密朋友稱為 “窮人”，並因此被悄悄排除在社交活動之外的經歷，引發了網絡上的共鳴。</p>
<p>在 2026 年 2 月 12 日的一段視頻中，Andrey Borul（@father_vs_world）含淚回憶起一位朋友開玩笑説，沒有人想邀請他和他的妻子出去，因為他們的經濟狀況。</p>
<p>Borul 表示，他因感染幾乎喪命，揹負着鉅額醫療債務，承認這句話讓他感到很受傷，不是因為它不正確，而是因為它暴露了經濟困難的孤立感。</p>
<p><img src="https://imageproxy.pbkrs.com/https://s.yimg.com/ny/api/res/1.2/.kyEvIuKydci5K_izQ9TfA--/YXBwaWQ9aGlnaGxhbmRlcjt3PTk2MDtoPTE1Mzk-/https://media.zenfs.com/en/daily_dot_articles_819/67a5a20d24d358265e10f315e07b84e9?x-oss-process=image/auto-orient,1/interlace,1/resize,w_1440,h_1440/quality,q_95/format,jpg" alt="" original-src="https://imageproxy.pbkrs.com/https://s.yimg.com/ny/api/res/1.2/.kyEvIuKydci5K_izQ9TfA--/YXBwaWQ9aGlnaGxhbmRlcjt3PTk2MDtoPTE1Mzk-/https://media.zenfs.com/en/daily_dot_articles_819/67a5a20d24d358265e10f315e07b84e9"/></p>
<p>@father_vs_world/TikTok</p>
<p>Borul 描述了他和妻子參加一個聚會時，一位親密朋友稱他們 “窮”。</p>
<p>這位朋友笑着補充説，沒有人想邀請 Borul 和他的妻子參加社交活動，因為他的經濟狀況。“我當時愣住了，” Borul 談到這次交流時説。</p>
<p>視頻中，Borul 承認他的親密朋友説得沒錯——他確實是窮。</p>
<p>“我現在幾乎每天工作 20 小時來償還醫療債務，” 他説。“顯然，我們必須勒緊褲腰帶。”</p>
<p>因此，他無法負擔度假——然而，他的家人仍然設法享受樂趣。</p>
<p>“我帶了一堆雪，放在後院，讓我們的孩子們玩，” Borul 説。“因為確實，我們負擔不起去山上花幾百美元旅行。”</p>
<p>在這段 2 分 50 秒的 TikTok 視頻中，創作者情緒激動，解釋了他感到孤立和被排斥的感受。</p>
<p>“窮真的很糟糕。我感到非常孤獨。我們已經三個月沒有被邀請去任何地方了，” 他含淚説。“請邀請我們去一些地方。”</p>
<p>在給《每日點滴》的郵件中，Borul 解釋説：“我和我的妻子是社交蝴蝶，喜歡有朋友在身邊，但被排除在外真的讓我們很受傷。”</p>
<p>他説，他們的家庭對視頻引發的同情湧現感到深受感動。</p>
<p>“視頻在網上迅速走紅的第二天，我給妻子看了它獲得的數百萬觀看次數，” 他寫道。“她簡直不敢相信，接下來的一週我們成了社區的話題，甚至我們的牧師也聯繫了我們，確保我們一切都好。”</p>
<h2>評論者表示 “拒絕是保護”</h2>
<p>這段視頻獲得了超過 100 萬次觀看和 2 萬條評論。許多人對創作者表示同情，並分享了自己貧窮的故事。</p>
<p>“你有妻子和孩子……一個家庭。你是富有的，兄弟！！” 一條評論寫道。</p>
<p>“我們大多數北美人都和你處於同樣的境地，” 另一條 TikTok 評論寫道。</p>
<p><img src="https://imageproxy.pbkrs.com/https://s.yimg.com/ny/api/res/1.2/R.g9cNjRaVk2NUCMnKZV2Q--/YXBwaWQ9aGlnaGxhbmRlcjt3PTk2MDtoPTgyOA--/https://media.zenfs.com/en/daily_dot_articles_819/09977b3d835ab6998d64b7f49fd1bb47?x-oss-process=image/auto-orient,1/interlace,1/resize,w_1440,h_1440/quality,q_95/format,jpg" alt="" original-src="https://imageproxy.pbkrs.com/https://s.yimg.com/ny/api/res/1.2/R.g9cNjRaVk2NUCMnKZV2Q--/YXBwaWQ9aGlnaGxhbmRlcjt3PTk2MDtoPTgyOA--/https://media.zenfs.com/en/daily_dot_articles_819/09977b3d835ab6998d64b7f49fd1bb47"/></p>
<p>@father_vs_world/TikTok</p>
<p>但最受歡迎的評論更進一步——警告 Borul，視頻中稱他 “窮” 的人並不是真正的朋友。</p>
<p>“他們不邀請你是上帝的保護！拒絕是保護，” 一條評論寫道。</p>
<p>“如果他們的朋友” 過得這麼好，也許他們應該買單，” 一位 Reddit 用户建議。</p>
<p>“看不起朋友，尤其是當他們可能經濟拮据時，説明了他們的本性，” 另一位 Reddit 用户補充道。</p>
<p>“你是個好人。不要讓這種人讓你感到任何不適，” 另一條 TikTok 評論寫道。“遠離他們。你是我會很榮幸稱之為朋友的人。”</p>
<h2>醫療債務的真實代價</h2>
<p>根據 KFF 的數據，2022 年，四成成年人報告因醫療或牙科賬單而產生債務，包括欠信用卡、催收機構、家人和朋友、銀行及其他貸款機構的債務，以支付醫療費用。</p>
<p>Borul 發起了一個 GoFundMe 活動，以幫助減輕他的醫療債務。截至 3 月 2 日，該眾籌活動已籌集超過 25,000 美元。</p>
<p>醫療債務並不完全是患者的錯；它往往是醫療和政府系統內系統性問題的結果。</p>
<p>“醫療債務是數十年功能失調的醫療政策、市場導向的保險系統以及存在顯著缺口的安全網項目的產物，” 羅斯福研究所的 Stephen Nuñez 表示。“費用可能是巨大的。”</p>
<p><em>《每日點滴》已通過電子郵件聯繫 @father_vs_world。創作者尚未立即回覆評論請求。</em></p>
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<p>一位 TikTok 創作者安德烈·博魯爾（Andrey Borul）分享了一段情感視頻，講述了因被朋友貼上 “窮人” 標籤而導致的社會排斥。在一次醫療緊急情況後，他揹負了鉅額債務，博魯爾表達了因未被邀請參加活動而感到孤獨和受傷。他的視頻引起了許多人的共鳴，觀看次數超過 100 萬，並獲得了支持性的評論。博魯爾發起了一個 GoFundMe 籌款活動，以幫助支付醫療費用，目前已籌集超過 25,000 美元。這一情況突顯了醫療債務對北美許多個人的影響這一更廣泛的問題</p>

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<p>A TikTok creator’s emotional confession about being labeled “poor” by a close friend, and quietly excluded from social events because of it, has struck a nerve online.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>一位 TikTok 創作者情感真摯地講述了被親密朋友稱為 “窮人”，並因此被悄悄排除在社交活動之外的經歷，引發了網絡上的共鳴。</p>
</div><p>In a Feb. 12, 2026, video, Andrey Borul (@father_vs_world) tearfully recounted how a friend joked that no one wanted to invite him and his wife out due to their financial situation.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>在 2026 年 2 月 12 日的一段視頻中，Andrey Borul（@father_vs_world）含淚回憶起一位朋友開玩笑説，沒有人想邀請他和他的妻子出去，因為他們的經濟狀況。</p>
</div><p>Borul, who says he’s buried in medical debt after nearly dying from an infection, admitted the comment hit hard, not because it was wrong, but because it exposed how isolating financial hardship can be.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>Borul 表示，他因感染幾乎喪命，揹負着鉅額醫療債務，承認這句話讓他感到很受傷，不是因為它不正確，而是因為它暴露了經濟困難的孤立感。</p>
</div><p><img src="https://imageproxy.pbkrs.com/https://s.yimg.com/ny/api/res/1.2/.kyEvIuKydci5K_izQ9TfA--/YXBwaWQ9aGlnaGxhbmRlcjt3PTk2MDtoPTE1Mzk-/https://media.zenfs.com/en/daily_dot_articles_819/67a5a20d24d358265e10f315e07b84e9" alt="" original-src="https://s.yimg.com/ny/api/res/1.2/.kyEvIuKydci5K_izQ9TfA--/YXBwaWQ9aGlnaGxhbmRlcjt3PTk2MDtoPTE1Mzk-/https://media.zenfs.com/en/daily_dot_articles_819/67a5a20d24d358265e10f315e07b84e9"/></p>
<p>@father_vs_world/TikTok</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>@father_vs_world/TikTok</p>
</div><p>Borul describes attending a party with his wife where a close friend called the couple “poor.”</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>Borul 描述了他和妻子參加一個聚會時，一位親密朋友稱他們 “窮”。</p>
</div><p>The friend laughed, adding that nobody wanted to invite Borul and his wife to social occasions because of his financial situation. “I was dumbfounded,” Borul said of the exchange.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>這位朋友笑着補充説，沒有人想邀請 Borul 和他的妻子參加社交活動，因為他的經濟狀況。“我當時愣住了，” Borul 談到這次交流時説。</p>
</div><p>The video continues with Borul admitting that his close friend was correct—he <em>is</em> poor.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>視頻中，Borul 承認他的親密朋友説得沒錯——他確實是窮。</p>
</div><p>“I’m basically right now working almost 20 hours a day trying to recover,” he said, of his medical debt. “Obviously, we have to tighten our belts.”</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>“我現在幾乎每天工作 20 小時來償還醫療債務，” 他説。“顯然，我們必須勒緊褲腰帶。”</p>
</div><p>For this reason, he can’t afford vacations—yet, his family manages to have fun.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>因此，他無法負擔度假——然而，他的家人仍然設法享受樂趣。</p>
</div><p>“I brought a ton of snow and I left it in our backyard so our kids could enjoy,” Borul said. “Because it’s true, we can’t afford to go to the mountains and spend hundreds of dollars on a trip.”</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>“我帶了一堆雪，放在後院，讓我們的孩子們玩，” Borul 説。“因為確實，我們負擔不起去山上花幾百美元旅行。”</p>
</div><p>Throughout the 2-minute and 50-second TikTok video, the creator became emotional, explaining how isolating and excluded he feels.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>在這段 2 分 50 秒的 TikTok 視頻中，創作者情緒激動，解釋了他感到孤立和被排斥的感受。</p>
</div><p>“Being poor sucks. I feel so alone. We haven’t been invited for three months anywhere,” he says, tearfully. “Invite us to go to places.”</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>“窮真的很糟糕。我感到非常孤獨。我們已經三個月沒有被邀請去任何地方了，” 他含淚説。“請邀請我們去一些地方。”</p>
</div><p>In an email to the Daily Dot, Borul explained: “Me and my wife are social butterflies and love having company around, but to be excluded from it really hurt us.”</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>在給《每日點滴》的郵件中，Borul 解釋説：“我和我的妻子是社交蝴蝶，喜歡有朋友在身邊，但被排除在外真的讓我們很受傷。”</p>
</div><p>He said their family was deeply touched by the outpouring of compassion in response to his video.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>他説，他們的家庭對視頻引發的同情湧現感到深受感動。</p>
</div><p>“The morning after the clip went super viral I showed my wife the millions of views it got,” he wrote. “She couldn’t believe it and for the next week we were the talk of the community, even reaching our pastor who reached out to make sure we were doing ok.”</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>“視頻在網上迅速走紅的第二天，我給妻子看了它獲得的數百萬觀看次數，” 他寫道。“她簡直不敢相信，接下來的一週我們成了社區的話題，甚至我們的牧師也聯繫了我們，確保我們一切都好。”</p>
</div><h2>Commenters say “rejection is protection”</h2>
<div class="lb-trans"><h2>評論者表示 “拒絕是保護”</h2>
</div><p>The video garnered over 1 million views and 20,000 comments. Many empathized with the creator and contributed their own stories of being poor.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>這段視頻獲得了超過 100 萬次觀看和 2 萬條評論。許多人對創作者表示同情，並分享了自己貧窮的故事。</p>
</div><p>“You have a wife and kids…a family. You’re RICH, brother!!” one comment read.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>“你有妻子和孩子……一個家庭。你是富有的，兄弟！！” 一條評論寫道。</p>
</div><p>“Most of us in North America are in your shoes,” read another TikTok comment.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>“我們大多數北美人都和你處於同樣的境地，” 另一條 TikTok 評論寫道。</p>
</div><p><img src="https://imageproxy.pbkrs.com/https://s.yimg.com/ny/api/res/1.2/R.g9cNjRaVk2NUCMnKZV2Q--/YXBwaWQ9aGlnaGxhbmRlcjt3PTk2MDtoPTgyOA--/https://media.zenfs.com/en/daily_dot_articles_819/09977b3d835ab6998d64b7f49fd1bb47" alt="" original-src="https://s.yimg.com/ny/api/res/1.2/R.g9cNjRaVk2NUCMnKZV2Q--/YXBwaWQ9aGlnaGxhbmRlcjt3PTk2MDtoPTgyOA--/https://media.zenfs.com/en/daily_dot_articles_819/09977b3d835ab6998d64b7f49fd1bb47"/></p>
<p>@father_vs_world/TikTok</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>@father_vs_world/TikTok</p>
</div><p>But the most liked comments went further—warning Borul that the person in the video who called him “poor” is not his real friend.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>但最受歡迎的評論更進一步——警告 Borul，視頻中稱他 “窮” 的人並不是真正的朋友。</p>
</div><p>“Them not inviting you is Gods protection! Rejection is protection,” read one comment.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>“他們不邀請你是上帝的保護！拒絕是保護，” 一條評論寫道。</p>
</div><p>“If their friend” are so well off, maybe they should pick up the tab,” a Reddit user suggested.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>“如果他們的朋友” 過得這麼好，也許他們應該買單，” 一位 Reddit 用户建議。</p>
</div><p>“looking down on your friends when they may have less money says alot about who they are,” another Redditor added.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>“看不起朋友，尤其是當他們可能經濟拮据時，説明了他們的本性，” 另一位 Reddit 用户補充道。</p>
</div><p>“You are THE MAN. Do not let those type of people make you feel any sort of way,” read another comment on TikTok. “Run from them. You’re the kind of guy I would be honored to call my friend.”</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>“你是個好人。不要讓這種人讓你感到任何不適，” 另一條 TikTok 評論寫道。“遠離他們。你是我會很榮幸稱之為朋友的人。”</p>
</div><h2>The true cost of medical debt</h2>
<div class="lb-trans"><h2>醫療債務的真實代價</h2>
</div><p>According to KFF, in 2022, four in ten adults reported having debt due to medical or dental bills, including debts owed to credit cards, collections agencies, family and friends, banks, and other lenders to pay for their health care costs.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>根據 KFF 的數據，2022 年，四成成年人報告因醫療或牙科賬單而產生債務，包括欠信用卡、催收機構、家人和朋友、銀行及其他貸款機構的債務，以支付醫療費用。</p>
</div><p>Borul started a GoFundMe to help offset his medical debt. As of March 2, the crowdsourcing campaign had reached over $25,000.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>Borul 發起了一個 GoFundMe 活動，以幫助減輕他的醫療債務。截至 3 月 2 日，該眾籌活動已籌集超過 25,000 美元。</p>
</div><p>Medical debt isn’t entirely the patient’s fault; it is often the result of systemic problems within healthcare and governmental systems.</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>醫療債務並不完全是患者的錯；它往往是醫療和政府系統內系統性問題的結果。</p>
</div><p>“Medical debt is the product of decades of dysfunctional health-care policy, a market-oriented insurance system, and a patchwork of safety net programs with notable gaps,” says Stephen Nuñez of The Roosevelt Institute. “The costs can be enormous.”</p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p>“醫療債務是數十年功能失調的醫療政策、市場導向的保險系統以及存在顯著缺口的安全網項目的產物，” 羅斯福研究所的 Stephen Nuñez 表示。“費用可能是巨大的。”</p>
</div><p><em>The Daily Dot has reached out to @father_vs_world via email. The creator did not immediately respond to the request for comment.</em></p>
<div class="lb-trans"><p><em>《每日點滴》已通過電子郵件聯繫 @father_vs_world。創作者尚未立即回覆評論請求。</em></p>
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